I used to dream of having my first sex only with a person I love, but it doesn’t seem possible, and I’m getting less and less concerned about it, I’m already fucking 23 years old, and sexual desire is the only thing that can motivate me to do something. but I don’t want to do that with anyone, I’m primarily interested in controlling the situation, safety and anonymity, and never seeing this man again. I don’t have such opportunities where I live, and I’m not sure if I’ll be able to do it in the near future, but if I get to a major city, I’m sure I’ll do it. I’ve heard some positive stories from other people’s experiences about that, and I’m interested in your thoughts.
https://lemmy.world/u/alina posted on Feb 28, 2026 19:17