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I'm thinking about hiring a male sex worker as soon as I have the opportunity.

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https://lemmy.world/u/alina posted on Feb 28, 2026 19:17

I used to dream of having my first sex only with a person I love, but it doesn’t seem possible, and I’m getting less and less concerned about it, I’m already fucking 23 years old, and sexual desire is the only thing that can motivate me to do something. but I don’t want to do that with anyone, I’m primarily interested in controlling the situation, safety and anonymity, and never seeing this man again. I don’t have such opportunities where I live, and I’m not sure if I’ll be able to do it in the near future, but if I get to a major city, I’m sure I’ll do it. I’ve heard some positive stories from other people’s experiences about that, and I’m interested in your thoughts.

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https://sh.itjust.works/u/Coldcell posted on Feb 28, 2026 19:29
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I think if it’s understood that it’s your first and you’re exploring, an understanding stranger can be a great ‘trial run’, but finding that person will take trust and patience. You control this.

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https://slrpnk.net/u/Nemo posted on Feb 28, 2026 21:33
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I’m already fucking 23 years old

Cousin, that’s not old. That’s a perfectly average age to have sex for the first time. You don’t need to hurry.

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