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MULTIVERSE has defederated fedinsfw.app for hosting child pornography

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https://lemmy.world/u/kingofras posted on Mar 1, 2026 07:20

cross-posted from: https://multiverse.soulism.net/c/soulism/p/51754/multiverse-has-defederated-fedinsfw-app-for-hosting-child-pornography

Hello MULTIVERSE users and off-site visitors alike. We have recently defederated fedinsfw.app due to ongoing child pornography concerns which the fedinsfw admin team are aware of, and do not intend to address. Before I explain the key issue, I’d like to define a few terms:

  • In Australia, Child Pornography Material is legally defined by the Criminal Code Act 1995, section 473.1 as:

(a) material that depicts a person, or a representation of a person, who is, or appears to be, under 18 years of age and who […] is engaged in, or appears to be engaged in, a sexual pose […]; and does this in a way that reasonable persons would regard as being, in all the circumstances, offensive;

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© material that describes a person who is, or is implied to be, under 18 years of age and who […] is engaged in, or is implied to be engaged in, a sexual pose […]; and does this in a way that reasonable persons would regard as being, in all the circumstances, offensive; or […]

  • Jailbait is a slang term for pornography depicting subjects who appear to be of age (adults), but are in fact underage (children; adolescents)

  • Fauxbait is faux jailbait - pornography depicting adults who appear to be children who appear to be adults.

According to the legal definition of child pornography material here in Australia, fauxbait is child pornography material, because of the implication that the actors depicted represent underage persons. And frankly, we here at MULTIVERSE agree with the law here. Fauxbait is disgusting. Legally and in our opinion, pornography depicting adult women who appear as adults is completely fine. But if someone posts a picture of an adult woman and calls it “fauxbait”, we are disgusted and the law is interested. Reality is not objective - the same legal picture of an adult person becomes illegal child pornography when it’s posted with a particular framing.

fedinsfw.app hosts a community, !fauxbait@fedinsfw.app, which is for Fauxbait. I have contacted the admin of the site, @lemmyposter212@fedinsfw.app, both privately and in public, pointing out that the community breaks the site’s rules 1 and 8. The admin disagrees. Although they dislike the community, they don’t believe it breaks the rules, and do not wish to violate their impartiality by banning the community.

We here at MULTIVERSE have no such impartiality. The admin inaction on child pornography violates our Rule 3 on Restricted Violence, in that it’s fucking nasty. It’s degrading to the women being posted to call them fauxbait, it’s dangerous towards the users to expose them to risks of committing sex crimes, and it has the potential to desensitise people to child porn, making them more likely to re-offend in worse ways. We are joining the growing movement of instances defederating fedinsfw.app, and we ask if your instance has not, that you speak to your admins and ask them to do the same.

https://lemmy.world/post/43714597
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https://piefed.blahaj.zone/u/ada posted on Mar 1, 2026 07:23
In reply to: https://lemmy.world/post/43714597

lbz and pbz were defederated from lemmynsfw for hosting communities like that, and we are defederated from fedinsfw for the same reason

https://piefed.blahaj.zone/comment/3545364
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https://lemmy.world/u/kingofras posted on Mar 1, 2026 07:52
In reply to: https://lemmy.world/post/43714597

What’s with the downvoting?

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https://lemmy.wtf/u/DFX4509B posted on Mar 1, 2026 08:07
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I just blocked that instance on my end.

https://lemmy.wtf/comment/20190924
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https://feddit.uk/u/AcesFullOfKings posted on Mar 1, 2026 08:46
In reply to: https://lemmy.world/post/43714597

eh, I checked the linked community. They have a rule that posters must link to the model’s verification that they’re overage on every post:

Age verification info for models required; OnlyFans, Fansly profile links are acceptable.

Seems fine to me. This sounds like a whole lot of virtue signalling and pearl-clutching.

There’s a very clear line in the sand to me: don’t post anyone underage. Posting overage girls is fine to me no matter what they look like. Should the “small boobs” community also be banned because people might mistake a 25 year old with As for a 15 year old? Come on.

What a whole lot of nothing.

https://feddit.uk/comment/23545745
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https://feddit.uk/u/AcesFullOfKings posted on Mar 1, 2026 08:48
In reply to: https://lemmy.world/comment/22409285

probably something to do with the inflammatory accusation that they “host child pornography” when they do nothing of the sort

https://feddit.uk/comment/23545758
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https://lemmy.world/u/whaleross posted on Mar 1, 2026 09:03
In reply to: https://lemmy.world/comment/22409285

Happens every time gooners are afraid their porn will be limited.

https://lemmy.world/comment/22409994
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https://lemmy.world/u/lemmyposter212 posted on Mar 1, 2026 09:10
In reply to: https://lemmy.world/post/43714597

Holy wow, WHAT we do not permit CP. Full stop.

As Ace@feddit.uk said no one under the age of 18 can be posted and they have to be verified as such. Genuinely it seems like the only issue is the name, which can be changed to clear up any confusion.

I also agree with this that Ace@feddit.uk said:

There’s a very clear line in the sand to me: don’t post anyone underage. Posting overage girls is fine to me no matter what they > like. Should the “small boobs” community also be banned because people might mistake a 25 year old with As for a 15 year old? Come on.

You/they are accusing them of “hosting child pornography” on the basis that they have nude images of proven-overage adults.

https://lemmy.world/comment/22410076
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https://feddit.uk/u/Robbo posted on Mar 1, 2026 09:18
In reply to: https://lemmy.world/post/43714597

There’s an interesting discussion to be had around stuff like the fauxbait community. But if you approach it in such bad faith as screaming “CP!! CP!!!!” it just comes across as ragebaiting to try to invoke the same sort of “but think of the children!” arguments that we’ve seen so much of in governments recently.

Look, that sort of content isn’t to my taste but I will defend its right to exist. It’s legal. The people posted there are adults. There has always been a thriving category of “barely legal” content - look at reddit’s “legalteens” or pornhub’s constant barrage of “18 year old does this” and “barely legal does that” etc. You can look elsewhere if it’s not to your taste but you can’t deny that it’s legal content.

I agree with the others about needing a clear distinction between what is legal and what isn’t, and we can debate all day about whether 18 is the correct line to draw, but for now you can’t call posting 18 year olds and 21 year olds “child porn” just because they have small bodies. That is approaching the discussion in bad faith.

https://feddit.uk/comment/23546075
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https://piefed.social/u/adhd_traco posted on Mar 1, 2026 10:35
In reply to: https://feddit.uk/comment/23545745

It’s not just about the age of the performers, though. I also think most people here care more about actual harm than legality.

To me it looks like it’s about platforming the indulgence of the sexualization of minors. In a fictional sense, but still. Should they allow written rape fantasies of minors?

I’m gonna lean towards that this is rather normalizing and harm producing than helping people. I would love to read science on this, but this is not my field, so hard to research myself.

https://piefed.social/comment/10341625
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https://feddit.uk/u/AcesFullOfKings posted on Mar 1, 2026 10:56
In reply to: https://piefed.social/comment/10341625

I just looked at the actual posts in the community, since I didn’t before. Most of them don’t even look that questionable tbh, although a couple do. But they’re all just naked people posing for the camera. It’s not like they’re dressed as school girls or anything. And every post has the age verification as required by the rule, and most of the images have company watermarks on them. They’re professional shots, not amateur candids. There’s nothing about the posts that implies that the models are underage other than the title of the community. As someone else said, they could be listed as “legal teens” and I doubt anyone would bat an eye.

I also think most people here care more about actual harm than legality.

I just don’t see the “actual harm” being done. If visitors are fully aware that they’re looking at adults, and every post explicitly reaffirms the age of the specific model shown, then I don’t see the harm there.

Should they allow written rape fantasies of minors?

No, because that’s illegal.

this is rather normalizing and harm producing

I just don’t agree with the slippery slope argument. It comes down to saying that “well if they’re looking at 19 and 18 year olds, then next thing is that they’ll be looking at 17 year olds and then 14 year olds!!”. Like I said, there’s a clear line, and getting close to it isn’t the same as crossing it.

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https://piefed.social/u/adhd_traco posted on Mar 1, 2026 11:13
In reply to: https://feddit.uk/comment/23547066

Alright, I don’t care about the legal argument. That’s for other folx to deal with. I care about a nice more or less ethical porn site.

And btw. Multiverse also agreed with the law, and I can see why.

I get the point of slippery slope arguments. So here’s the potential harm I see, which I think you’d agree with is passing a point on the slope we don’t want to cross: normalizing indulging in the sexualisation of minors, or just straight up normalising the sexualisation of minors.

If the community calls itself fauxbait, the mental process is one of sexualisation of minors, even if it isn’t what’s depicted. Just like a written story is just ink on paper and no performer is hurt, it’s about the mental process.

They are not looking at these adults and thinking about fucking an adult. Just like the brain would do with a fictional story.

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https://multiverse.soulism.net/u/Grail posted on Mar 1, 2026 12:43
In reply to: https://lemmy.world/comment/22410076

Yes, the name should be changed. The pictures on that community would be completely legal to look at if they were not described as fauxbait, but when they are posted with that framing, they become a crime to look at in Australia (And Finland, according to a Finn on Matrix)

https://multiverse.soulism.net/comment/410071
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https://lemmy.world/u/Canyon201 posted on Mar 1, 2026 12:58
In reply to: https://lemmy.world/post/43714597

lmao it is so funny that Rimu will hardcode penalties for any piefed instance that federates with the tankie triad but has no problems with people using his software for child porn really shows his priorities

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https://piefed.social/u/Goodeye8 posted on Mar 1, 2026 13:05
In reply to: https://piefed.social/comment/10341899

So you’re just taking offense to the community being called fauxbait? So if the community is called tiny titties it’s all good?

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https://piefed.social/u/adhd_traco posted on Mar 1, 2026 13:13
In reply to: https://piefed.social/comment/10342796

If somebody posts a swastika, and uses it to critically talk about the nazi history, or the fertility symbol aspect of it, it’s not the same as if you’re posting it without comment in the context of a debate about racism, or in a PoC forum, etc.

Context matters and changes what it is we’re looking at.

Is it desirable to platform a community that basically says “jerking off to underage girls, but legal”? To put it another way…

I would like to imagine fedinsfw as something beyond the boundaries of ordinary porn sites. It can be so much better. And I say this regardless of this aspect we are talking about, though, just to keep in mind.

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https://piefed.social/u/Elting posted on Mar 1, 2026 13:25
In reply to: https://multiverse.soulism.net/comment/410071

Im not sure why these people want this kind of thing here. It’s just weird and creepy and trying to justify it makes you look weird and creepy.

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https://piefed.social/u/Elting posted on Mar 1, 2026 13:29
In reply to: https://piefed.social/comment/10342858

Unless all the guys arguing against you in this thread are teenagers, then they’re just trying to justify their own creepy behavior.

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https://multiverse.soulism.net/u/Grail posted on Mar 1, 2026 13:30
In reply to: https://piefed.social/comment/10342980

There’s an argument to be made that this content satisfies a need for some mentally ill people, and I did believe in that argument when I was younger, but hopefully we’ve all learned from the Epstein files that demand for this kind of thing can be created from scratch in formerly normal people.

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https://piefed.social/u/adhd_traco posted on Mar 1, 2026 13:43
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Maybe. But for anyone reading who might be changing their minds. I’m not trying to step on anyone’s toes and guilt trip them or put them down.

Because right now, we can look forward to how good fedinsfw can actually be. It just seems like the fediverse has a beautiful opportunity to re-imagine internet pornography. And it’s realising this opportunity that I am arguing for.

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https://piefed.social/u/Elting posted on Mar 1, 2026 13:45
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Yeah I like porn but im scared of feddinsfw becoming what reddit is for porn.

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https://piefed.social/u/adhd_traco posted on Mar 1, 2026 13:49
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aye. same.

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https://piefed.social/u/Goodeye8 posted on Mar 1, 2026 14:27
In reply to: https://piefed.social/comment/10342858

To put it plainly I was asking if the context matters more than the content, because I think it does. I agree the faux bait community shouldn’t exist but if you’re going argue that content shouldn’t be posted in the first place I’m going to disagree. Not because it’s my kind of content, at to be clear it very much is not, but because I think that’s the slippery slope. That would be saying small flatchested women porn is CP which means men who like those kinds of women are pedos and those women are essentially jailbait. I think that’s stupid.

I think if we to improve the state of NSFW content we also need to be very specific in our wording of the criticism because how criticism is worded can change the context and as we agree, context matters. And that’s what I want from this discussion, clarity on what people are criticizing. Because the other person is right that the content there is not the problem, but he’s wrong because the reason to defed wasn’t because of the content itself but rather how it was framed. And I think you also blurred that line with the fiction story example.

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https://fedia.io/u/AmidFuror posted on Mar 1, 2026 14:31
In reply to: https://multiverse.soulism.net/comment/410332

Same reason violent video games should be banned.

https://fedia.io/m/fediverse@lemmy.world/t/3524710/-/comment/14231903
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https://piefed.social/u/adhd_traco posted on Mar 1, 2026 14:43
In reply to: https://piefed.social/comment/10343626

Looks like we effectively agree.

I think if we to improve the state of NSFW content we also need to be very specific in our wording of the criticism because how criticism is worded can change the context and as we agree, context matters.

Agreed! I think Multiverse made quite the effort and did a decent job. Misunderstandings and mistakes still happen, which is why just talking like this to get to our goal can be useful :)

And I think you also blurred that line with the fiction story example.

Thanks for the feedback. Reading it again now, I wouldn’t know how to express it differently. But I can see how this might not be clear to people not living in my head. Useful to know.

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https://multiverse.soulism.net/u/Grail posted on Mar 1, 2026 14:48
In reply to: https://fedia.io/m/fediverse@lemmy.world/t/3524710/-/comment/14231903

Playing video games causes more playing video games. Looking at child porn causes more looking at more child porn.

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https://fedia.io/u/AmidFuror posted on Mar 1, 2026 14:59
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For your analogy to work, the content in question has to actually be child porn.

https://fedia.io/m/fediverse@lemmy.world/t/3524710/-/comment/14232143
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https://multiverse.soulism.net/u/Grail posted on Mar 1, 2026 15:11
In reply to: https://fedia.io/m/fediverse@lemmy.world/t/3524710/-/comment/14232143

Legally, it is. I agree with the law that cruelty free imitation child porn is still child porn, just like I believe vegan butter is butter.

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https://lemmy.world/u/peacefulpixel posted on Mar 1, 2026 15:15
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these comments are fucking horrible jesus christ. i mean ik pedophilia is super popular among the demographic of ppl that would be using lemmy but seeing it out in the open like this is rlly gut wrenching. throwing around terms like “virtue signaling” when calling out fetishes that are clearly entertaining the idea of child pornography is some serious gooner brain shit. how disgusting.

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https://fedia.io/u/AmidFuror posted on Mar 1, 2026 16:00
In reply to: https://multiverse.soulism.net/comment/411083

BDSM porn is illegal in Australia. I guess that needs to go too.

The word “fauxbait” is already telling you it’s not really illegal. It just might be confused with something illegal. You wrote that the same content with a different name would be OK! The name let’s you know that these are adult women.

https://fedia.io/m/fediverse@lemmy.world/t/3524710/-/comment/14232652
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https://piefed.social/u/Goodeye8 posted on Mar 1, 2026 18:50
In reply to: https://fedia.io/m/fediverse@lemmy.world/t/3524710/-/comment/14232652

fauxbait means fake (jail)bait and jailbait is considered childporn, so fauxbait is about fake child porn. The content itself is not illegal if the participants are all adults but according to Australian laws the framing of the content can make it illegal as explained in the original post. Fauxbait frames the content as “child porn, but not really” and I think if someone made that framing explicit you’d also consider it wrong.

If someone posted an image of small flatchested adult woman with the title “that woman has nice tits” you probably wouldn’t think anything of it (unless you’re into it) but when that same image is shown and the title is “that fake child has nice tits” it should raise some questions for you, like why even mention child? And that’s the issue with fauxbait. There’s nothing wrong with liking small women with small tits as long as they’re adults, but why is it necessary to take the extra step to frame the adult as a fake child? If you like those kinds of women you don’t need fauxbait, you can subscribe to small titties or tiny titties or flatchested of whatever the community would be called. You can get the same content without the “that’s a fake child” implication.

If you want to argue that they’re not actually implying the fake child porn then why call it fauxbait and continue using it? There are other communities with the same content, just ban the fauxbait community and use a different community. Even if they’re not implying it they’re still using a name that literally means fake child porn.

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https://anarchist.nexus/u/Wildmimic posted on Mar 1, 2026 21:24
In reply to: https://lemmy.world/comment/22409994

I don’t watch that stuff, because i rarely look at pornography, and if i do, i prefer well developed bodytypes. But I will downvote anyone using a CP-scare to silence something legal.

Since there are only verified adults on display, there’s only one reason why someone cries for censuring - a moralin-drenched opinion and ignorance of other’s preferences.

People like this are the same who go after any type of media that doesn’t align with their own world view, and they always use censuring and hiding stuff for everyone, overstepping their limits and defining themselves as the only valid moral compass by which anyone should live - because they personally can’t cope with content they don’t agree with (mostly out of a misplaced sense of shame)

The same mindset empowers strongmen and populists in politics, who know exactly how to play those fools - with real life consequences (think pizzagate). This kind of behavior simply cannot be encouraged.

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https://anarchist.nexus/u/Wildmimic posted on Mar 1, 2026 21:38
In reply to: https://lemmy.world/comment/22414288

You know that there are people out there that can distinguish between a fantasy and reality? There are many people out there that have those fantasies that would never touch a 17 year old out of principle. This is a type of roleplay, and as long as there are only consenting adults in play, there is no harm done to anyone.

Denying that those impulses exist is one of the reasons that people who are real pedophiles cant get professional help without fear of persecution. Pushing them into illegality just for having those thoughts is not only not fair (because they don’t have a choice who they are attracted to), but also pushes them into the dark corners of society where they cant get help and the really illegal shit happens.

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https://lemmy.world/u/peacefulpixel posted on Mar 1, 2026 21:47
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you know i might actually put effort into responding to you but “because they don’t have a choice who they are attracted to” shows how far gone you are. this entire comment is making me sick to my stomach. for the record, pedophilia is obviously a fucking choice and has nothing to do with attraction oh my gods. why does that even need saying

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https://anarchist.nexus/u/Wildmimic posted on Mar 1, 2026 22:06
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Did you choose who you are attracted to or did you discover it?

You seem to mix some things up. There are pedophiles who have sexual attraction to children but know better, and there are people who rape children because they like the power imbalance.

The first group has simply discovered their attraction (and mostly beat themselves up over it) and would benefit from therapy and support, which they don’t get because of people like you. They also can benefit from things like “fauxbait”, where they can live out their kink without hurting anyone because there are only consenting adults in play.

The second group are in the Epstein files. They do it because they get off on the thought that someone is helpless. They are not pedophiles, they are simply the worst kind of rapist.

Make sure to direct your disgust on the second group, not the first, because the first one doesn’t deserve it.

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https://lemmy.world/u/peacefulpixel posted on Mar 1, 2026 22:37
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you and everyone like you need to be a on a fucking list. you disgust me

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https://lemmy.world/u/kingofras posted on Mar 2, 2026 00:27
In reply to: https://lemmy.world/post/43714597

I was simply cross posting for discussion. And while I see the point that the OP is being a bit dramatic perhaps, as somebody else said on here: the downvotes and vehement opposition to the OP can be seen as support for pornographic content that seemingly depicts minors, even if the actors are in fact of legal age. And if there is one type of content where the user is more concerned about what it looks like than what it is, it would be pornography.

Everyone can have different kinks, fetishes and sexual proclivities, but once you’re essentially advocating for pornography that visually identical to child pornography, it’s time for that uncomfortable look in the mirror I think. The free speech absolutist argument doesn’t really hold water. What would the absolutist argument be if the child pornography was mades using Sora or something similar? No minors would be involved in making that either right? I’m all for free speech, but to push this angle seems really grasping at straws.

If a new user comes to Lemmy without NSFW filters and such content is among the first things they see, I wouldn’t expect them to sign up and become a regular contributor to the platform.

I was hoping !fediverse@lemmy.world would be a place where this can be discussed, which I suppose it is, as this will rank nicely as “controversial”.

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https://lemmy.world/u/whaleross posted on Mar 2, 2026 00:46
In reply to: https://anarchist.nexus/comment/2861319

The gooners are downvoting the dude that asked the question of why the very news about this is being downvoted.

This is a perfect example of a knee jerk reaction from the gooners.

By the way, personally I get sceptical of anyone that feels the need to clarify that they don’t watch kiddy porn. Shouldn’t that ring some kind of bell?

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https://anarchist.nexus/u/Wildmimic posted on Mar 2, 2026 01:03
In reply to: https://lemmy.world/comment/22422995

I just wanted to make clear that i do not have a horse in this race. I am slowly approaching an age where pornography as a whole simply isn’t that interesting anymore.

Also, for me personally it’s a question of ethics to prefer female friendly pornography - it’s still no 100% guarantee that everything is above board (i can’t exactly run background checks on everyone involved to make sure), but its important for me that my “consumption” is ethical in most areas of my life.

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https://lemmy.world/u/whaleross posted on Mar 2, 2026 10:40
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Dude, why are you telling me this? I have zero interest in your porn preferences. Are you intersted in mine? Do you need to justify that you are a good person AND enjoy porn? Please, there are not questions that I want answers to. These are questions for yourself to contemplate.

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https://lemmy.world/u/kingofras posted on Mar 2, 2026 11:04
In reply to: https://piefed.blahaj.zone/comment/3545364

TIL a significant minority of Lemmy/Piefed users like to look at or reserve the right to be able to look at pornography where the actors bear resemblance to children. And the best arguments they have is FReE sPeEcH and iTs NoT iLleGaL.

Yuk.

I understand the ease of downvoting, but the lack of well laid out arguments gives this entire platform a very yukkie vibe to me.

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https://anarchist.nexus/u/Wildmimic posted on Mar 2, 2026 11:41
In reply to: https://lemmy.world/comment/22428425

You brought up the theme of porn preferences the moment you implied the downvotes have anything to do with “their porn will be limited”. If you say that everyone that downvotes that braindead take watches that stuff, get corrected, and then double down by insinuating that i watch “kiddy porn”, you will have to read what i actually watch.

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https://lemmy.world/u/whaleross posted on Mar 2, 2026 12:10
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Ok, my friend. Go outside for a walk and enjoy the weather and let that noggin have a rest from thinking so much.

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https://anarchist.nexus/u/Wildmimic posted on Mar 2, 2026 12:15
In reply to: https://feddit.uk/comment/23546075

It’s not even distasteful, it’s simply honest. It is no secret that many men like young women, or else the “barely legal” category wouldn’t exist, and this theme is even completely in the open when the US Republicans push for lowering the legal age for marriage.

This exists in nearly every society, from the western “barely legal” porn theme over Mohammed having child wifes to japanese mangas which sexualize schoolgirls. It is therefor important to acknowledge that these impulses exist, make sure children are protected by law and to have a societal understanding that children are harmed if those impulses are made reality.

Those who suffer from having those impulses need ways to cope so that children are safe - either by offering therapy, “barely legal”-porn or “fauxbait”, without ostracizing those who choose these things over harming children. If a different label for the same thing helps to even keep one child safe it’s worth it. That would be a responsible way to deal with this situation.

It’s similar to those having a bad temper and aggressive impulses - giving those people an “out” by offering therapy, from competitive settings where they can live out their impulses (which can be anything from sports over video games to board games) to hitting each other with pool noodles and going into the woods to scream until their throats hurt.

All of it is simply channeling destructive impulses into non-harmful ways to cope, and only an open and honest discourse will help.

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https://anarchist.nexus/u/Wildmimic posted on Mar 2, 2026 12:18
In reply to: https://lemmy.world/comment/22429373

Sadly the weather here sucks currently, but thanks. I hope you have a nice day.

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https://lemmy.world/u/calcopiritus posted on Mar 2, 2026 19:24
In reply to: https://lemmy.world/comment/22428674

There are at least 3 comments with well laid arguments (hint, they have way more up votes than the post). You have answered to none of them.

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https://lemmy.world/u/aaa999 posted on Mar 2, 2026 20:10
In reply to: https://lemmy.world/post/43714597

you post one legal pornography i leave a comment that someone in the legal pornography resembles a minor despite the fact that they do not you get in trouble great

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https://lemmy.world/u/kingofras posted on Mar 2, 2026 23:20
In reply to: https://lemmy.world/comment/22437041

I’ll just quote you to yourself, as we’re pretty much on the same page:

If you approve someone, you don’t need to explain yourself, you would just say “I agree with this guy”. There’s no substance to it.

However, if you downvote, you are saying “this is wrong”. Which is much different. When you accuse someone of being wrong, you should explain yourself, otherwise you’re being a dick.

It’s fine if someone already answered with what you were going to answer. You can just upvote that guy and move on.

EDIT: I’m absolutely in awe that this comment specifically gathered so many downvotes. And this is a good example of what I was referring to. Lots of people downvoted, and 0 ppl said why.

You may think that those upvotes explain the downvotes, but they really don’t. And they don’t to a small majority of the people, so perhaps you can help out. A good start would be:

You’re getting downvoted because

Or

I’m downvoting your post/comment because

Or if you feel the upvoted comments are indeed addressing my concern “legal porn that looks like CP is morally extremely questionable and either won’t help the growth of Lemmy or would attract people I rather not associate with”, you can copy paste it.

I also want to state this is occurring at a time where we are discovering pedophelia run all the way to the white house.

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https://multiverse.soulism.net/u/Grail posted on Mar 3, 2026 01:15
In reply to: https://anarchist.nexus/comment/2861854

I agree that there’s a big difference between natural pedophiles (pedophilia as a sexuality) and Epstein pedophiles (pedophilia as a kink).

The research that I’ve read on the subject suggests that Epstein pedophiles are opportunistic - they offend when there is an opportunity to do so. That could be having a martini on Epstein’s island, or it could be browsing Reddit and seeing a post from r/jailbait. During that first encounter, if the person has enough excuses to be able to say it’s not that bad, it’s not illegal, it’s not actually harming anyone, then they are likely to seek out more “content” and re-offend in worse ways.

In other words, if we make cruelty free imitation child porn available to natural pedophiles, we’re going to create more Epstein pedophiles. We’re not actually helping by doing that. It’s counterproductive.

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https://lemmy.world/u/calcopiritus posted on Mar 3, 2026 04:43
In reply to: https://lemmy.world/comment/22441168

You went through my comment history and quoted me, to just not read the whole quote.

Here, I’ll help you:

It’s fine if someone already answered with what you were going to answer. You can just upvote that guy and move on.

As I said, there are already 3 top comments explaining to you why you’re being downvoted. I don’t need to explain myself when I mostly agree with them, I just upvote them.

If everyone had to explain every downvote, we would have hundreds of comments on each post, and most of them would say the same thing.

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https://lemmy.world/u/kingofras posted on Mar 3, 2026 05:01
In reply to: https://lemmy.world/comment/22445043

I think we’ve exhausted this discourse. Peace

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https://lemmy.world/u/monkeyjoe posted on Mar 4, 2026 06:24
In reply to: https://lemmy.world/comment/22412420

This got removed the admin? Fucking lol

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https://feddit.org/u/JensSpahnpasta posted on Mar 5, 2026 10:06
In reply to: https://lemmy.world/post/43714597

As a feddit.org user, I’m really interested how this discussion about instances obeying local laws will turn out when it’s about child porn.

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https://multiverse.soulism.net/u/Grail posted on Mar 5, 2026 11:05
In reply to: https://feddit.org/comment/11855337

For the record, I believe feddit.org goes far beyond the legal requirements with respect to zionist hate speech.

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