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"I was on the jury for a murder trial. And it was strange but in a good way - I expected a TV drama, but it was a lesson in quiet Canadian duty" | CBC First Person

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https://piefed.ca/u/new_otters_raft posted on Mar 7, 2026 19:10

I posted this in c/Canada, but I thought I would share it here to. What have your experiences with jury duty been like?

Note about what “First Person” columns are:

First Person columns are personal stories and experiences of Canadians, in their own words. This is intended to showcase a more intimate storytelling perspective, and allow people from across the country to share what they have lived through.

A good piece will spur conversation. It could be a slice of life or a transformative moment that changed your life. Perhaps your personal story will inform how the reader thinks about the world.

Intro:

I knew I was a goner as soon as the sheriff walked into the room. He looked like everyone’s genial Uncle Bob except for the police vest and the walkie-talkie that hung from his belt.

“Juror 322, gather your things. We have to go see the judge,” he said.

A young blond woman picked up her bag and followed Bob out the door.

I knew that exchange meant she wouldn’t be back. And, as the alternate juror for a 12-member jury, I would take her place.

I have never met anyone who wanted to be on a jury. I certainly didn’t.

However, over the course of a three-week trial, we evolved from a gaggle of annoyed people crabbing about how this was going to take time away from watching The Pitt or on the pickleball court to a group that worked hard to figure out whether the accused committed the crime.

In true Canadian fashion, there wasn’t one moment when the piano started playing O Canada or we recited Jeff Douglas’s “I Am Canadian” speech. Instead, it was a collective shoulder shrug that basically said, “We’re stuck here. We might as well figure out the correct answer.”

https://piefed.ca/c/casualconversation/p/575576/i-was-on-the-jury-for-a-murder-trial-and-it-was-strange-but-in-a-good-way-i-expected-a-tv-d

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https://piefed.ca/u/Curious_Canid posted on Mar 9, 2026 02:56
In reply to: https://piefed.ca/c/casualconversation/p/575576/i-was-on-the-jury-for-a-murder-trial-and-it-was-strange-but-in-a-good-way-i-expected-a-tv-d

I’m in the US, but my experience was a lot like that. I ended up as the foreman of a jury that was given an unusually nasty domestic abuse case. It was an intense experience. The court phase lasted three days. The testimony was disturbing and brutal, but the judge did a great job on all counts. The trial was well managed, the legal issues were clearly laid out, and the jury was told what we needed to do and how we should go about it.

Once we were sent to deliberate, everyone settled in rather quickly to doing their jobs carefully and honestly. We had long, detailed, and surprisingly analytical discussions. We requested transcripts of several key sections of the testimony and reviewed some of it word-by-word. Despite the intensity of the subject matter, everyone tried to keep the process rational and not emotional.

There were two holdouts. No one complained about them. We talked with them about why they had reservations and then dug into the evidence around those issues. We spent about a day-and-a-half deliberating, but we did come to a consensus. At the end, I think everyone felt good about our verdict, and about the way we came to it.

The whole process was very much what you hope a trial would be like, but don’t really expect to see. The judge and the lawyers were all engaged, professional, and competent. Everyone on the jury took their jobs seriously. They were thoughtful, careful, and thorough.

That experience actually did a lot for my faith in humanity.

https://piefed.ca/comment/3793979

Scrubs Season 10’s Debut Reminded Me Why I Fell In Love With This Medical Sitcom All Those Years Ago

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https://piefed.ca/u/new_otters_raft posted on Feb 26, 2026 23:54

I didn’t realize it was out already

https://piefed.ca/c/television/p/556778/scrubs-season-10s-debut-reminded-me-why-i-fell-in-love-with-this-medical-sitcom-all-those-y

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https://piefed.ca/u/new_otters_raft posted on Feb 27, 2026 11:16
In reply to: https://beehaw.org/comment/5624179

Good to know! I’ll give it a try soon

https://piefed.ca/comment/3675108
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https://piefed.social/u/NachBarcelona posted on Feb 27, 2026 11:38
In reply to: https://piefed.ca/c/television/p/556778/scrubs-season-10s-debut-reminded-me-why-i-fell-in-love-with-this-medical-sitcom-all-those-y

J.C. McG is still rocking the Cox? YO AAAAAH.

https://piefed.social/comment/10314986

Tailscale Services GA: App-aware connectivity with more control

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https://piefed.ca/u/new_otters_raft posted on Feb 20, 2026 18:00

This should be excellent for selfhosters that have all their services in one VM. I haven’t tried this myself, but I think this means you can:
- you can create memorable links instead of memorizing port numbers: jellyfin.foo-bar.ts.net
- share one service from a machine instead of all of them in a more intuitive way

If you’re new to Tailscale Services, it lets you publish internal resources like databases, APIs, and web servers as named services in your tailnet, using stable MagicDNS names. Rather than connecting to individual machines, teams connect to logical services that automatically route traffic to healthy, available backends across your infrastructure. This decoupling makes migrations, scaling, and high availability far easier, without reconfiguring clients, rewriting access policies, or standing up load balancers. Our documentation has details on use cases, requirements, and implementation.

https://piefed.ca/c/selfhosted/p/538455/tailscale-services-ga-app-aware-connectivity-with-more-control

5 posts in conversation

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https://sh.itjust.works/u/WingedObsidian posted on Feb 21, 2026 22:35
In reply to: https://mander.xyz/comment/25403255

Just minor issue that maybe I’m not configuring correctly but when I use private resources I have to use the Ip instead of the alias. Looked online and it seemed other users were experiencing the same issue of not being able to use the alias. At this point I’m almost thinking it might be easier set up a second traefik container that just handles all the local connections and configure manually. Would love to just type my *.local address and have it be simple like that. Otherwise I love it and everything else it comes with! An alternative could be netbird, but want to see if I can figure out that small tid bit of pangolin first.

https://sh.itjust.works/comment/23905281
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https://lemmy.zip/u/TheBlackLounge posted on Feb 23, 2026 13:38
In reply to: https://lemmy.ca/comment/21827834

Just tried it, Services doesn’t work with funnel. You need to be on the tailnet.

https://lemmy.zip/comment/24826759

Conversation

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https://lemmy.dbzer0.com/u/Glitch posted on Feb 18, 2026 07:03
In reply to: https://piefed.ca/c/linux/p/531421/kde-plasma-6-6-desktop-is-out-now-introducing-an-optional-new-login-manager-improved-zoom-m

Juicy list of features, very excited to update

https://lemmy.dbzer0.com/comment/24483458

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